Hospital AGAIN!!!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by kasumalley on September 6, 2014 at 12:34pm

Oh Jessie. There are no words. I wish I could give you all a hug or do ANYTHING to help but the reality is I can't. I will say a prayer for your family, keep you in my hearts and be here if you ever need to tak and I UNDERSTAND that right now none of that is enough. Know there are people who care very much and hate to see someone so nice in so much pain.

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Permalink Reply by Jessie W. Garrett III on September 6, 2014 at 7:56pm

Thanks Sweety...

   Well it was a nice service...Which of course, mine and my wife's relationship was never really normal...(LOL) I mean come on, our song was Follow Me by Uncle Kracker and that song talks about a woman cheating on her man...So it was never normal...(LOL)  But I guess that's why we mashed so well, we were two peas cut from different pods, but we compleminted each other with our differences...We did have one hiccup, but that's because the computer and the TV shut down, but other then that it was really nice...

I want to Thank everyone for their condolences and the prayers...Thank You so much...

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Permalink Reply by R.J. Spears on September 6, 2014 at 11:01pm

Jessie:

So sorry for your loss.  I haven't checked in here for a few days and was shocked to see your original post and am devastated to see the following posts.

For what its worth, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

--
R.J. Spears

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Permalink Reply by Jessie W. Garrett III on September 8, 2014 at 10:18am

Thanks my friend...It's been a rough few days with my 9 year old...Nightmares, bad dreams and sleepless nights...But it'll start settling down after he start talking about it...Which him and his brother are talking to councilors at school, so they have plenty of help...Saturday night after I got the boys to bed and the house was quite, I turned on the radio and the TV just for noise to hide my sobbing like a little baby...

   I Thank you for your condolences...But we'll get through this, we're taking it one day at a time...

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Permalink Reply by Komrad Venessa Wicked☭ on September 9, 2014 at 11:26am

The boys talking to a grief counselor would help them with the trauma especially later on down the line.

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Permalink Reply by Jessie W. Garrett III on September 9, 2014 at 2:12pm

I gave Lj his momma's pillow last night before he went to sleep and he slept all night long without any problems...I got a phone call from the school counselor and he seems to be able to talk to her more then he wants to talk to me right now...Which as long as he is talking to someone, be it me or another adult at school, then I'm happy...

   Jason, my step-son, who's 17, has had a lot more on his plate besides his mom passing...His real dad has decided to try and pull a bunch of shit, the day after his mom passed...He's got Jason believing that there's nothing I can do if he comes and gets Jason and takes him back to North Carolina...And has basically tried to fill the boy's head with a bunch of bullshit...

   Done been to the local police and sheriff departments and explained what was going on and Jason being 17...They said that they would have to come to the house if they were called and talk to Jason, but they couldn't really do anything but ask Jason if he wanted to stay with me and his brother or leave to go to North Carolina...And when he tells them he wants to stay, there's nothing they can do because he is 17 and has the right to chose who or where he wants to be...

   Basically, his dad wants to stop paying child support and steal Jason's survivor's benefits...All this this shit over money...It's not the well being of Jason, it's what kind of money that Jason may be collecting or him stopping child support payments...

   But first that son of a worthless bitch has to come comfront me at my door before he can bring the cops into the situation...So when that bastard comes to my door, that cocksucker will end up being beat to where the motherfucker will be knocking on death's door...

   Hell, all he has to do is wait till Jason's birthday in December where the boy will turn 18...I swear this poor boy has had is whole fucking world turned up side down because of an asshole who was never there...

   Hell, I met Denise when he was 4 1/2 or 5 years old and treated the boy like he was my own ever since then...Hell I basically raised the boy...The time his real dad wanted anything to do with him was when he felt his daddyhood was being questioned by his parents...Then he would come get him for the day, but then drop Jason off over at his real dad's parents house...Hell it took the assfucker damn near 6 years in order to get his child support caught up because he refused to pay it...Hell I stil remember the weekend he was supposed to come and get Jason and take him on a scout camping trip and the motherfucker never even had the guts to call to tell Jason he couldn't make it...45 minutes before the scout campout started, I had to throw everything into the car and race across town and into the countryside to make it in time for the campout...I busted my time in that old buick in order to get him there on time...We made it with only 10 minutes to spare...

   Anyways, looks like the swamps of TN might be getting a new resident if that prick shows up here trying to start any shit...

   Already called the child support office to notify them of Denise's passing, talked to the caseworker in which took care of the child support for Jason...They even told me that because Jason is 17 and has decided to stay with us, which he has, there's nothing his sperm donor father can do about it even in North Carolina...So between what TN law and NC law says as long as Jason is 17 and wants to stay with his brother and me, there's nothing that worthless money grubbing bastard can do...

   Anyways, I will be going this Friday morning or first thing next Monday to finish up paperwork for the survivor benefits for the boys...I doubt I'll get any, but if I do, that would be alright, but just about all of it will be going to get Lj and Jason some new clothes and shit like that...

   I figured I would update everyone on what's been happening...Seems like a lot, but as it goes, there's nothing peaceful about my life...(L)

   Anyways, we're taking it one day at a time and dealing with the everyday problems which comes with the passing of Loved one...

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Permalink Reply by KOMRAD RHINO☭ on September 11, 2014 at 9:10am

If it's any comfort. I know for a fact the boys are eligible for the benefits. And they will remain so as long as they are either 18 or in school. Once they graduate high school. The benefits stop. And I think that even you are eligible as long as you are raising them. The social security website can tell you all about the ins and outs of social security survivor benefits. My mom, sister and I drew them clear up until I graduated. It's worth checking into.

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Permalink Reply by Jessie W. Garrett III on September 10, 2014 at 2:04pm

This has been one fucked up week that's for sure...(LOL) Trying to figure out a routine  for me and boys and now my dad is being fucking paranoid about these fucking work hours...As long as I work the fucking hours, there's nothing that the people can say about it...I fucking swear...They would have time to do shit, (my dad and is bitch), if they get their fucking asses up and leave the fucking house before fucking noon...Hell he could have at least waited till next week and say something...But like fucking always, it's always about him and what he wants...I got news for him, he's getting ready to get a big fucking dose of karma pretty soon...Hell, it ain't like his fucking girlfriend works all her hours...Hell, they get their asses up and get the fuck out the fucking door, they could have everything done by fucking 2pm...But because they want to drive half way across TN to check the price on something fucking stupid, that they end up finding at walmart here in town cheaper...I'm only shorten my work day by 2 hours but hell on the following saturday I end up making up any time I missed anyways, so why he's having a fit now is just beyond my comprehension...It seems people forget really fast around here that I do quit a fucking lot, but when I need help all I get is fucking, let me know if there's something I can do...And needing to be off work by 2 so I can make it home to get Lj off the bus, doesn't mean he can't get his ass out the fucking door and get the shit he needs done, done...Hell, when I go shopping I'm in and out within a few minutes, unless it's grocery shopping and I have a list to go by and I'm still in and out within 45 minutes or no longer then an hour tops...He just doesn't understand, hell my mom passed away when everyone was grown up and out of the house, he never had to raise kids by his self...Well, I'll make him a little happier, but it ain't going to be by fucking much...He's going to get his fucking time, but he'll have to be back here by 4 and no later...Which means he'll still have to get his ass up and out of the house when I get there and back here before 4...So as usual I'll be pissing him off in the morning... I'll get it set up that Lj goes over to a friend's place till I get home, but I have to be there no later then 4:30 to pick him up...Which means his ass to be home by 4 so I can leave by a little after...Granted my friend would keep him as long as I need her too, but an hour and a half will be fine for me and it'll be just enough to piss my fucking dad off...Either he's going to have to deal with it or fire me...This ain't the only fucking job out there...Specially when I go and have hours which will keep most businesses from having to pay for full time help...I've got it figured out that even if I have to go to work for McD's, as long as I get 27 hours a week, I'll still be able to pay my lights and cable bill each month...So as it stands right now, these selfish ass people will get their up and comings when they least expect it...But for me, it just ain't soon enough...

    No one can fucking wait for awhile so I can figure shit out, it has to be now, now, now...This is getting to the point someone is going to end up losing a job...And that someone is me...Then let him call me hollering about he needs me to watch my brother and I tell him lame as excuse...I'm tired of all this fucking drama the past few days and wish it would all just go the fuck away...That's all I want, for every ounce of drama to go the hell away....

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Permalink Reply by Komrad Scarlet Zombie☭ on September 12, 2014 at 2:35pm

I know you are stressed out beyond belief buy I know things get better. Please be strong for your boys they need you.♡

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Permalink Reply by Jessie W. Garrett III on September 12, 2014 at 4:13pm

I'll make it through...I always do...(LOL)  Fall in a pile of shit and come out smelling like shit, but make it through it without damaging anyone...(LOL)

   Things are goin to get easier once people realize that I'm done taking their shit...I've taken all I can stand...

   I'm just glad I have a place I can go vent and people sort of or kind of understand...

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Permalink Reply by Jessie W. Garrett III on September 16, 2014 at 9:04pm

   I lost my wife and now I'm losing my step son due to his piece of shit (sperm donor) father has now decided that Jason has to go live with him...This piece of shit only paid child support because he was court order...Anyways, this is way to much drama to try and explain...But as it stands, he has to go live with his Aunt Amy for the next three and a half months till his 18th birthday...So as for now, my family is broken all due to a motherfucker who feels that he should be getting his hands on Jason's Survivor benefits...

   I did however fuck his thinking up, I told the social security office that his grandmother had custody of Jason and that Jason's benefits will be going to her and she will be splitting the benefit sum up between a savings account and the rest will be sent to his Aunt in which will go to getting Jason the things he needs...Which means this worthless prick will not be able to see a dime of Jason's benefits...

   But we have tried everything...Even going as far as trying to get a lawyer...But because my wife died before any paperwork could be drawn which leaves me out of trying to do anything....And as of right now, there is nothing in this world I, his grandmother can do to keep the boy here with me...

   Jason's (sperm donor) dad, gave Jason a choice to go live with his grandmother, his Aunt Amy or him...Jason told him neither, he wanted to stay with me and his brother....Well, his (sperm donor) dad, (cause the bastard never lived up to being Jason's dad in the 13 years me and the wife had been together), just doesn't like me because I proved to him what a real dad should be like and well, he has hated my guts for a long time...

   Hell, he never even tried to teach the boy to fight, I had to teach the boy how to fight and not to fight fair...(LOL) Anyways, As of Friday of this week my step son Jason will not be living with me and Lj, he'll be living with his Aunt Amy till December 26th of this year...On the 26th his Aunt Amy will bring him back and on the 27th he will be celebrating his 18th birthday and no matter what his dad tries after that, we can just tell him to go to hell...

   Poor Lj is having the roughest time...He lost his mom and just two short weeks later he's loosing his brother....All because of a money grumbing worthless prick....

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Permalink Reply by Komrad Scarlet Zombie☭ on September 17, 2014 at 10:36am

This is going from bad to worse. Just try and relax because you have to keep focus on your kids.♡

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