Shits Tough

Good Morning WZ,

   Well its another day and another morning I'm happy to be alive and raising my kids...Jason is 19 and just a few short weeks he graduated from high school..He's got plans for attending college...Even after all the trying and fighting to turn him into a man, he still wants to act like a kid...But now he's in the real world where there is no more playing silly little high school games or making up stories to get people to do things for you...Now he has to learn what the real world is all about...Lying, cheating, stealing and backstabbing to reach any and every goal you have in life...It's time for him to realize that the real world is a cruel and does not forgive and how life will kick you to the ground and unless you fight to get up, it will keep in that place of self loathing and wishing for better, but not doing anything to change it...So now he's being forced to grow up and he's not liking that...

   I do need to say this, PLEASE, if you are a woman and you have a boy, but no man in your life, Please, Please for crying out loud, PLEASE DO NOT BABY THEM!!! Yes, show them love, compassion, caring and all of that, but DO NOT BABY THEM...Jason's mom babied him and even though I have been in his life since he was 5 years old, the damage was done...I'm NOT saying don't hug them or kiss them or hold their hands or whatever, but don't treat them like some porclean doll...

   To many kids are being turned into these emotional crybabies that need a safe place to hide from the world, instead of learning to deal with the reality of the world...Words hurt and fists hurt...But being so sensitive that you can't let words roll off your back or ignore the ignorant is just wrong...

   I'm not saying don't love your kids...I'm just saying raise your boys to be tough emotionally...Don't let words keep you down...Teach them that words truly don't hurt you...They are just words...They are NOT fists or weapons...

   WHY DO I SAY THIS???

   Because Jason's mom refused to let him grow up and babied him all of his life, he is one of those My Little Pony, I need a safe place and a stuff animal to hide and keep me safe from the real world...All because I can't deal with the real world...

   Maybe with me forcing him to get a job and always on his ass about helping with the house work and forcing him to face the real world...That life is tough and you can't let words or ignorant people get to you or run your life...Either he's going to learn to fight or he'll end up failing and end up like his real dad...Worthless prick...

   ANyways, it's another day and I'm still kicking and rocking and vaping and CIGARETTE FREE for almost 4 months...