my dad just called me and I'm not to sure how long that old stubborn woman will make it, but if she does pass, my dadit seems grandma is in pretty bad shape...Kidneys are shutting down and she is suf…

It's a horrible thing when a family member passes, even worse as the process lingers, it takes a massive toll on family. Hang in there and be strong and take care. Hopefully you have a lot of people around you to help support one another. Take care.

Thanks bro...I still have your number in my old cell phone, so unless you changed it since then, I got it...I guess today they sent her home with hospice care...She has no color in her skin, she's went totally pale and the whites in her eyes have been fluxurating between yellow and a very off, damn near dirty white...Tell you how long it's been since I even seen any of my relatives back in Champaign, IL, I was 20 when we moved and my last visit was after I turned 21 and now I'm forty one, so damn near 20 years...I've called up there or have received phone calls from up north, but they near talk long...Hell, as it stand right now the only family reunions we have is when someone dies...Talk about a hard way to meet chicks....(ROFLMAO) Just kidding...(LOL)  

   No but on a serious note I'm figuring sometime this week or next week I'll get the call that grandma has passed away...It's kind of nerve racking because of some of the crap my dad and my uncles are doing...Which isn't nothing more then arguing and empty threats being thrown around none stop...I think it all falls on the situation...My Uncle Tony, who is the youngest of my dad's brothers, smokes dope and drinks a lot, he has been made executor of my grandmother's estate...Which my dad has a problem with that, but my grandmother did it and the others will end up having to either deal with it or get over it...

   So needless to say, that has my uncles and my dad into it, which aint helping matters...